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02.19.09 - 6:27 pm i thoroughly enjoy and envy the lack of insecurity my own child has.
for him, he can look fine or better, but never bad. rolling out of bed and going to school is fine, but rolling out of bed and putting stuff in his hair to give him a mowhawk is better. his physical appearance is just not concerning to him. he will still talk to the girls in his class. he will still approach people hes never met. even toothless with matted hair. when do we start to care about such trivial things? what first causes a boy to feel insecure about how he looks or how he is dressed? is it girls who cause those feelings of physical insecurity, or is it watching other boys become increasingly more concerned that triggers all of that? it will be interesting to find out.
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